The Collective Societal Shame Toward the Adopted Child Is the Effective Tool To Keep Adoptees Silent
The adoptive parent that chooses adoption for child ownership, companionship and care giving in old age is not in the best interests of the adopted child.
The adopted child is the temporary object to glorify the adoptive parent's existence.
The adopted child abuse begins in infancy as the child learns that they can't depend on the caregiver to satisfy the infant's needs. the adopted child is taught to be ashamed for their existence and is dependent on the adoptive parent to serve them.
The adopted child does not develop normal parent-child relationship as they learn that their position is subservient to the adoptive parent. The shaming is a form of psychological abuse and manipulation to keep the adopted child afraid and in fear of the adoptive parent, hypersensitive and hypervigilant to the possibility and probability of punishment. The Chosen Child story is to benefit the adopting parent's own guilt and shame. As the shame of being illegitimate and exaggerated adopted child's genetic parent histories will keep the adopted child psychologically crippled and dependent from seeking escape.