日期：2017-11-06 17:09:40 来源：www.jnzyxlzx.com
A basic human society as compared with no exception whatsoever but in China at all times and in all countries; cultural background, especially the nature has been displayed. Chinese culture is a typical collectivist culture. One of its characteristics is to care more about the opinions of others, and it is customary to compare its performance with others.
In all areas of life, we will spontaneously form a ladder type evaluation system, each person is in a ladder; if he is in the lower position, it will bring a sense of anxiety, this anxiety is not only for their own performance concerns, is derived from the evaluation of his fears, and provide power to fight for us.
Generally speaking, social comparison can be divided into two types, one is the upward social comparison, is compared with those who had better than us people; the other is a downward social comparison, is compared with those people who are smaller than we are. Other people's children and other people's circle of friends are typical products of social comparison.
In fact, the other children, other family or circle of friends, this kind of knot in essence, are derived from said psychology social comparison process. Social comparison means that we compare our situation, situation, or situation to others.
Social comparison is a kind of instinct. We are born to love ourselves more than others, especially the upward comparison. This may have roots in the evolution of social comparison allows us to more accurately assess how their performance, in order to make improvements; this behavior can bring survival benefit, therefore has been selected.
Second, we tend to mistake ourselves in other people's eyes. There is a common illusion called self transparency, that is, mistakenly believe that others can accurately perceive our inner world, that our emotions and ideas are exposed in the eyes of others.
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