Disputes and misunderstandings often occur between humans, this is natural because everyone has different and diverse characters and traits. However, it should not be allowed to be protracted and prolonged.
Whatever problem that makes the dispute must be stopped immediately. Then how do you do it? Here’s how to deal with disputes and misunderstandings:
- Talk about
Most people who are not technologically savvy, and have social accounts like FB and BBM, will instead create a status on the social media to disclose their anger. That’s the wrong way because it will worsen the atmosphere and not solve the problem. The best way is to talk together from heart to heart, and talk about what is at the core of the problem. But keep in mind, prioritize cold hearts so that no further disputes occur.
- Apologize and Forgive
It is actually simple to reduce the dispute, that is if it is wrong then ask forgiveness and if he pleads wrong and has apologized, forgive. That’s a very beautiful thing, of course. But in reality it is not that easy, because most people who are in disagreement will hold on to their founding and assume that they are the most righteous. Don’t be like a child who wants to win on his own, it’s good to admit mistakes.
- Don’t Let Others Know
We recommend that the problems that occur are enough of you and he who knows, so as not to spread everywhere. Usually if you hear a friend or relative has a problem with someone else, then it will even worsen the atmosphere and they don’t accept the incident. It would be better if the problem was solved by the two of you who had the problem. Do not with emotion of course, reduce emotions and ego respectively.
- Take a lesson
In each event there must be a lesson, then take lessons and lessons from the incident. The lesson that can be taken is that you are more careful in acting horns so as not to offend others.
Appreciate others, then you will be appreciated too. Don’t speak that can hurt other people’s feelings and hearts. That’s how to handle disputes so that you can establish good relations again. May be useful.