The word Responsibility comes from the two words Response and Ability.
I visualize the lack of responsibility with the image to the left. As if a secret force would lurk in the dark behind someone. That force controls their entire life and is the steady excuse for things to go wrong.
It seems few people seem to know the origins of words such as responsibility.
Separated, the meaning of the word responsibility means:
Response and ability
This shows that we are able to choose our response to something.
Be it a situation, to an email or to a question. But 99% of the time we don’t choose wisely.
Why is that?
My first suggestion is to make yourself acquainted with the power. That you are in the position to change a response.
The next thing is to consider on which set of principles your response is for. If you have no principles you can write some down as a mission statement for example. And the next thing is to set priorities.
If your priorities and principles are in sync your response will show that.
Let´s say your goal is getting better at drawing. Your principle has to be spending at least 10 hours a week on that.
If you have spent your 10 hours on drawing you feel better to say yes to a not so important request.
Simple as that.
The Bottom Line is: Do Important things First!
Quadrant I is for the immediate and important deadlines.
Quadrant II is for long-term strategizing and development.
Quadrant III is for time pressured distractions. They are not really important, but someone wants it now.
Quadrant IV is for those activities that yield little is any value. These are activities that are often used for taking a break from time pressured and important activities.