One of the best ways to help your children grow in faith is to teach them to pray. There are many ways to pray as a family and it is good to have both regular routines and variety.
Many families find it helpful to establish a prayer space in their home. This can be a small table, a shelf in a bookcase, the mantle-piece over the fire, or even a moveable tray on the dinner table. Most families like to have a crucifix or image of Mary and Jesus, a candle and the Bible. Some like to have different coloured cloths which they change to coincide with the liturgical season.
Other items you might like to keep nearby to use on occasions are:
- rosary beads
- songs and hymns (words, music on CD)
- a vase for flowers
- a fire-proof bowl for burning petitions
- holy pictures, photos of loved ones
- mementos of the sacraments
- books of prayer and the saints.
Suggested Prayer Space Format
If you have a copy of My School Diary, each Sunday page has a symbol that relates to the theme of the Sunday reading and provides a tactile and visually stimulating element for your prayer. This is usually a simple object such as a stone or a star. Use this symbol (or a picture of it) as a focus point. If you don’t have the diary, you can identify an appropriate symbol from the readings yourself.
- Gather the family and light your candle.
- Make the Sign of the Cross, then one person reads the scripture passage.
- Family Focus: discuss the scripture together and do the activity if appropriate.
- Offer prayers and intentions then say the closing prayer in the prayer space.
- Say a Hail Mary (or a Rosary) and make the Sign of the Cross.
Special Occasion Rituals
Deepen your family’s faith by marking special occasions with some more elaborate rituals. For example:
- Ash Wednesday. Mark the beginning of Lent by making your own ashes : here
- Stations of the Cross. Kids love candles. Start with twelve or fourteen lit candles and blow one out with each station : here
- Passover. Get in touch with the Jewish roots of the Mass : here
- Saint Days. We celebrate birthdays, but why not celebrate your child’s saint day? Look up the saint with a name that corresponds to one of your child’s names and mark it with special prayers and celebrations : here
- Sacrament Celebrations. Don’t leave to the school all of your child’s preparation for the sacraments! There are many ways that you can contribute to their formation for these important events.